Monday, September 29, 2008
Lobster Fest 08'
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Our Lord’s exhortation to us in Matthew 5:38-48 is to be generous in our behavior toward everyone. Beware of living according to your natural affections in your spiritual life. Everyone has natural affections— some people we like and others we don’t like. Yet we must never let those likes and dislikes rule our Christian life. "If we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another" ( 1 John 1:7 ), even those toward whom we have no affection.
The example our Lord gave us here is not that of a good person, or even of a good Christian, but of God Himself. ". . . be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect." In other words, simply show to the other person what God has shown to you. And God will give you plenty of real life opportunities to prove whether or not you are "perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect." Being a disciple means deliberately identifying yourself with God’s interests in other people. Jesus says, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another" ( John 13:34-35 ).
The true expression of Christian character is not in good-doing, but in God-likeness. If the Spirit of God has transformed you within, you will exhibit divine characteristics in your life, not just good human characteristics. God’s life in us expresses itself asGod’s life, not as human life trying to be godly. The secret of a Christian’s life is that the supernatural becomes natural in him as a result of the grace of God, and the experience of this becomes evident in the practical, everyday details of life, not in times of intimate fellowship with God. And when we come in contact with things that create confusion and a flurry of activity, we find to our own amazement that we have the power to stay wonderfully poised even in the center of it all.
Friday, September 5, 2008
Gardner's 8 intelligences
Basically, in the past, researchers have referred to human intelligence as something measured by degree, and that everyone has a particular level of general intelligence, g.
but Gardner says, intelligence is multi-faceted.
His theory suggests there are 8 different types of intelligence.
1. Linguistic
2. Logical-Mathematical
3. Musical
4. Bodily-Kinesthetic
5. Spatial
6. Interpersonal
7. Intrapersonal
8. Naturalistic/Spiritual
What I'm most interested in, is number 6 and 7. Interpersonal intelligence- how well you know yourself. Intrapersonal intelligence- how well you know others.
If you dig deep into your social network and begin to analyze your friends, you'll realize that the people you care most about, and connect the best with, are the people who have similar levels of interpersonal and intrapersonal intelligence as you.
If you have a same-gender sibling, most likely he/she is the closest person to you. Not because they're your own blood and because they have no choice but to love you, but really, because you tend to see the world, morality, virtue, humor, etc, on the same level.
Well thats what I think at least.
Concerning the opposite sex...
Maybe you're attracted to someone because they're smart. (Logical-Mathematical)
Maybe he/she can sing or play the acoustic guitar real well (Musical)
and if you're a girl, maybe a guy is really attractive to you because of his athletisim. He plays the field well, regardless of the sport (Bodily-Kinistetic).
They are lots of factors that play into attraction.
But I think what truly connects people, and allows them to be mates for life... is their comparative degrees of interpersonal/intrapersonal intelligence. (of course spiritual as well).
Anything otherwise... and they're bound to butt heads and foster inner-frustration, passive-aggressiveness (so common among asians), and whatever else that occurs when you're stuck in a monogamous relationship that is making you unhappy for an unknown reason.
I dont know where I'm getting with this. I really don't have much of a point.
But yes, There IS such a thing as interpersonal and intrapersonal intelligence. In Korean its called "noon-chi". I'm sure its something that grows with maturity and experience, but you must agree with me on the fact that some people, really just don't have it.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Winding down
By college-student social standards, I've been pretty MIA this summer. By that I mean, no one knows what I've been doing because I have yet to document it all up on facebook photos. Just wait. It's coming.
I thought I would be extremely lonely this summer after disabling my facebook wall, and staying off AIM, but.. jk I didn't think that. But I did do it to prove a point (secret) to myself and I succeeded. That is all that matters.
A few things.
- I got a new apartment. Its hot! both literally and in the aesthetic sense of the word. The place gets no ventilation whatsoever. But its furnished with brand new goods and the carpets are clean!
- I got a new car. like. brand new. It's real pretty. Honda Clearance Sale came just in the nickerbockers of time!
- I got a new job. I didn't quit my day job though. Basically on lonely nights, you can catch me over at Century City mall, kissing customer arse at Armani Exchange. After my rent went up for moving to a nicer place, I had to get a second job. Its cool though... I love jumping into bed at night, exhausted - I get the best sleep that way.
- I picked up a new minor just so I could be a bruin for another year. I did NOT buy a den sports package for nothing ya'lls. Basically, I met with a counselor and he said "Get out of LA. You're done." But I said "No you can't make me!"
I am now a Political Science Major with a minor in Civic Engagement.
I always complain about classes offered at UCLA (because really - some of them are so bogus. SO NOT worth the thousands of dollars SallieMae pays on mybehalf each year). They're are some good ones though. For instance, in my case, all the Political Theory classes I've taken have been gems. Life-shaping. I'm the kind of person who grows if someone else gives me something to live by. 100% of who you are is not what you do, but what you believe in. If you don't know what you believe in, go get brainwashed by someone who does.
My point: Session A was fun.
And work... lastyear my office clerk job at Anderson Business school was starting to become a drag, but this summer has been good because I've earned some respect in the office, and reached some substantial depth in the relationships with my bossess- so things are looking up. Armani Exchange is fun because the managers aka my boss ladies are like real-life Kim Kardashians! except much more professional and down-to- earth. One thing I've realized while working with my managers at Armani is that I connect best with women who share my passion for monogamy! You would think most people in this world share the same passion, but statistics, both in the world, and in the church, prove otherwise. Being in long-term relationships ain't that cool no more. (All my gorgeous sexy bossess have been in 3 year+, healthy, unregretful relationships. Its inspirational!).
Exercise. The campus gym closes at 10:45pm daily which is no bueno for me because thats usually when I get home every night after work, but pitch-black-Drake-stadium-at-11pm never fails me. During Session A, dragonboat kept me in check. Session C has been a little bit tougher, but I run and jump when I can.
Family. I'm so blessed to have my sister granted she and I verbally abuse each other ALOT. not with cussing, but with everything else thats brutal. I've realized the seriousness of our dynamics JUST this summer because we've been spending a lot of time together (we both have summer school and work on campus). It's a blessing in disguise. Usually the verbal abuse turns out to be truthful. I wouldn't take "the truth" humbly from anyone else but my own blood.
Our family has yet to take a family vacation. I think we're going to Sequoia. I just want some fresh air. That's all I ask.
Church. Sabbaths and Tuesday Night bible studies are the two days I look forward to the most during the week.
I've said a lot of "OhhhHhhh. THIS is what ____ actually means!" fill in the blank with... grace, Jesus, tabernacle, the law, Genesis 1:1, doxology, holiness (Anything and everything I thought I understood). I'm learning/experiencing so much through this tiny church situated in the middle of nowhere. James Choi likes to call it the boonies. I've also met some living, tangible, godly women and men, and they really give me faith in my own faith. My life/faith/happiness suffocates when I'm ever in the "PEOPLE SUCK!!!!!"phase. Our horizontal relationships affect your vertical relationship. Having a good community of role-models has done wonders in my life. PEOPLE ROCK!!!!!!!!!!
I have done nothing this summer to wow the boots off your socks except for school, work, church, and spending time with family. My life is still a dynamic one.
P.S. I think its kinda tacky to blog about politics but let me say one thing. Track Palin is a fine lookin gentleman! Peace be with him in Iraqattack.
